“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Please, don’t trust yourself.
I know. That’s not really PC. That kinda goes against the mantra of our culture – you do you. Trust in yourself. Do what your heart tells you to do.
Look – the life you are living right now is the result of your choices. For good or bad, you got yourself right where you are. You did it. You chose it.
The life you are living is the result of the decisions you’ve made and the things and people you have allowed in your life. If you want a different life, a better life, a more satisfying life, a more purposeful life, a more God-honoring life, you have to change your decisions and you have to change who and what you allow in your life.
You have to make better decisions. Make decisions based on God’s truth. You’ve seen what decisions based on your feelings and your thoughts have got you. You are right here because you followed you.
If you want a better life, you have to make better decisions. For goodness sake, STOP TRUSTING YOURSELF!!! Trust God. Follow him.
The second thing is you are where you are because of the stuff you allow in your life. There are things that have no place in your life. There are people who have no place in your life. There are habits that have no place in your life. Get them out. Your future hangs in the balance.
Choose well.
For goodness sake – stop trusting yourself.
Trust God.

