
One of my aunts has struggled with her mental health for most of her life. With the current regiment of meds and care, she is better than she has been in years. Recently, my family had lunch with her and her family at a restaurant. When the food was being served, my aunt remarked, “How come my serving is so small compared to everyone else?”
I thought that comment was quite odd since they gave her, what I thought was, a huge portion. And, if it was not a “huge” it certainly was not any smaller than any of the other dishes that the kitchen had prepared. But, I am telling you, her serving was HUGE!!!
Here’s the thing: because she was convinced that her portion was smaller than everyone else’s portion, that was her reality. As far as she was concerned, she had been cheated. This is part of the mental health thing I mentioned earlier. Because this is the lens she sees her world, every interaction is viewed suspiciously.
A couple of things to note:
- A misunderstanding believed to be true is true for my aunt. It doesn’t matter if it is not objectively true. Her perception is her reality and her truth.
- The lens we use to view the world impacts how we see and understand the world.
The million dollar question for us is: what lens are we using to see the world?
God commands Christians, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
- Give thanks – this is written in the imperative. This is not a suggestion. This is a command. God commands all Christians to give thank in all circumstances.
- Second, God tells Christians that this is God’s will for every single Christ-follower. This is God’s will. You don’t have to think about, guess, wonder about what God’s will for you is. God tells us straight out – this is my will for every single Christ-follower
- Third, God tells Christians that we are to give thanks in “all” circumstances. That’ a pretty all-encompassing word. Not in the good situations. Not when the Mariners win. All. All circumstances.
The lens Christ-follower are to put on is the lens of thanksgiving.
Now here’s the best part: when we put on the lens of thanksgiving, we begin seeing everything around us through the lens of gratitude. And there really is so much for every one of us to be grateful for. Putting on the lens of gratitude will change your life.
Don’t take my word for it. God says so! So, put it on. Put on the lens of gratitude.