“For we are to God the pleasing aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. To the one we are an aroma that brings death; to the other, an aroma that brings life.” (2 Corinthians 2:15-16).

N. T. Wright, a New Testament scholar and author writes that there are two types of people: radiator people and drain people. He writes:
Some people are radiators and other people are drains. Some people, that is, naturally give energy and warmth to others. People like having them around, because they make you feel more alive. Others, however, suck up what’s around them and give little or nothing back. They drain you of energy. They make you feel exhausted, mentally and emotionally and perhaps physically.
Thankfully, most of us are one or the other at different stages in life. There are times when we are in need of care. There are times when we are so weary, so burnt-out, so hurt that we need people to lift us up. And there are times when life is good and we have enough in us to give of ourselves to others.
But there are some who are one or the other by their very nature. If you are a drain, you don’t have to remain a drain. You can choose to be a radiator. How do you do that? Take the focus off you and start focusing on the people around you.
Be a blessing to the people around you. Add value to the relationships around you. You are Christ’s ambassador.

