How to Live Grateful

“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful” (Colossians 4:2)

On any given day (particularly prior to Covid), a person has dozens, if not hundreds, of encounters with other people. For the most part, those encounters are either neutral or positive encounters. But it is astonishing how you can have one negative encounter and that single encounter has the capacity to ruin your entire day!

Think about that. Dozens to hundreds of neutral to positive encounters and yet the one encounter that stands out is the negative one.

That is the way it is with us. We don’t have to remind ourselves of the negative encounters. We don’t have to work at remembering them. Problems, negative encounters, struggles just rise up to our top concern without any effort on our part.

Because we are that way, we have to train our minds to be watchful and thankful. God provides us with so many reasons to be thankful for. But our default mode is to allow negative encounters to color our days.

Our text gives us three pointers on how to retrain our minds.

  1. Devote yourselves to prayer
  2. Be watchful
  3. Give thanks

Devote yourselves to prayer. When you devote yourself to something, you prioritize that thing above other things. When you are devoted to the Seahawks, you work your schedule around the game so that you don’t miss the Seahawks. We are told to devote ourselves to prayer. You have to prioritize and make the time to pray.

When you pray, be watchful. Look for the areas where God is at work. Once you start looking, you will see God’s finger print all over your day.

Today, my daughter was out to pick up my son in Dupont. As she was driving, the front right tire blew! I’ve experienced tires that go flat, but I’ve never seen a tire blow out. But that’s what happened to Kailey. The front right tire literally blew out! Thank God she was not on the freeway. Thank God she was in a neighborhood street when the tire blew. Things could have been bad. I found myself complaining about changing my schedule to help her change out the tire, when it dawned on me how amazingly grateful I was that she was not on the freeway.

When you pray, be watchful. Look for where God is at work.

When you pray with a watchful eye, gratitude is the byproduct. When you see God at work in your life, when you recognize the dozens and hundreds of neutral to positive encounters that enhance your day – the grocer who sets out the food so we can feed our families, the church staff who are working behind the scenes so you can have a fantastic worship experience, the teachers who work tirelessly under incredibly challenging situations so our children can learn and grow, the list is literally endless!

When you pray with a watchful eye, gratitude happens.

Devote yourselves to prayer. Be watchful. Give thanks.

Take the time right now to pray, watch, and give thanks. Tell God how much you appreciate him and thank him.

Be Holy for I am Holy — Puhleese!!!

The LORD said to Moses, “Speak to the entire assembly of Israel and say to them, ‘Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy.'”
– Leviticus 19:1

“Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy.”

  • Verses like this frustrate and discourage me.
  • It’s not like I don’t want to be holy. It’s not like I’m not trying.
  • It’s not like I want to keep sinning with the same ol’ sin day in and day out.

“Be holy because I, the LORD your God, am holy.”

  • Easy for God to say. Of course you are holy. You are GOD!!!
  • I struggle with holiness because holiness is not in me.

What are we supposed to do with this?

Whether we like verses like this or not, I’m pretty sure holiness matters to God and God fully expects us to comply.

Why would God command such a ridiculous thing? How can we do something that is impossible for us? Seems so unfair.

Check this out!!! This is huge!!!

God who commands us to be holy provides a way for us to keep this command. His name is Jesus.

God already knows we are not capable of holiness because holiness is not in us. So God made a way to cover us with his holiness through Jesus Christ. When we receive Jesus as Lord and Savior, Christ’s righteousness and holiness covers us. We become holy – not by our holiness – because Christ is holy and Christ covers us.

God tells us in Leviticus 20:7, “I am the LORD, who makes you holy.”

God is the one who makes holiness possible for us.

It is because of all that God has done for us in Jesus, we respond to God’s amazing love with gratitude. We strive to live holy lives, not because that’s how we become holy, but because God’s love compels us to.

Spend a moment to thank God for his love and faithfulness. Take the time to express to God your gratitude and appreciation for all that God has done for us in Jesus Christ.

Psalm 117 – Reason for Praise

“Praise the LORD, all you nations; extol him, all you peoples. For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the LORD endures forever. Praise the LORD.”
– Psalm 117

Psalm 117 is the shortest chapter in the Bile. It is only two verses long. But don’t let its shortness fool you into thinking it is not significant.

The psalm begins with a call to praise and ends with the same call to praise – Hallelujah!

  • Hallelujah is the Hebrew word we translate as “Praise the LORD.”
  • This word was used as a call to praise. It was an invitation for Jews to praise God.

In between the Hallelujahs is the reason why we are to give praise to God:

  • For great is his love toward us
  • the Faithfulness of the LORD endures forever

It is easy to go through the days without recalling or remembering all the ways God is loving and faithful to us. Too often, the only time we turn to God is when we have a concern, problem, or when we’re in need of something from God.

It’s not that we ought not pray and talk with God about these things. It’s just that it gets really exhausting when that’s all we talk with God about. It’s not that God is not working in our lives. God is. It’s just that we are too forgetful. Concerns or problems, we don’t even have to think about remembering. They’re all over our thoughts. But the good things take intentional recollection. That in and of itself tells us much about our nature. But we can correct that.

Start your prayers with praise and thanksgiving. Start by remembering and recalling all the ways God loves you and is faithful to you.

That’s your homework today. In fact, that’s your homework from now on. Before you utter a request, you will spend time recalling and remembering the ways God shows his love and faithfulness to you.

Start this day by recalling and remembering at least three ways God shows his love to you, and three ways God demonstrates his faithfulness to you. Write it down and thank God for the ways he loves you.

When you do, praise will come naturally.

Hallelujah! Praise the LORD!